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Originally Posted by gazthomas
I APOLOGISE!
dear the dude whos posts got locked twice and blamed it on me icon_rolleyes.gif
but i hope that u will understand that it just wasnt my fault that your first post got locked although i played a part in it and i think its a bit petty when u start blaming it all on me, i think that your bein unreasonable and immature icon_lol.gif, but there was deffinatley no need for you to hand all the blame over to me, it not my problem that u will not confront thomas anderson (niel) or rashbaum, this may because you think that you will get stick from them or maybe you just aint got the guts!
so until you can start being realistic and realising that it just wasnt my fault i will promise not to bother in anymore of your posts! unles i feel the need
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gaz, i know that it wasnt just your fault... however you have given yourself a reputation on this board. and only you can change that... i apologise if you feel like i was singling you out, but i wasnt just aiming those comments at you... however, one thing i would suggest to you, and this isn't a slate on you or anything so please dont take it as such, is that you should possibly stop and calm down before you respond. it seems to me that someone makes a comment aimed at you, or could be seen as being aimed at you and you react without checking yourself, and firing off into a retort that really isnt necessary. I have only really seen 3 occasions on my time on this board where that could have been justified as an acceptable thing to do, and unfortunately they were way before your time here. if you make the effort to be nice then people
will respond to it, and if you really DO have a grievence with someone send them a PM. And i don't mean a bitchfest of a PM but maybe something that goes along the line of:
Hey _______
I just wanted to say that i thought that what you said about me in (insert topic link here) was off the mark for (X) (y) and (Z) reasons. I would appreciate you thinking about it and deleting that particular comment. If you would like further explanation as to why i said what i did please ask and i'll respond.
Thanks, ____
At the end of the day when threads are locked its usually the last person (non mod) to post on them who are to blame. I understand that it takes two to tango, and im sorry if i offended you by seemingly accusing you of singlehandedly ruining the threads (not my intention) however your responses full of expletives to people is usually a fair bet as to it being a contributing factor.
It seems like you might have some interesting things to say but people on here WONT respond to immaturity. Give people a chance at giving you a chance and see what the difference is...
and Jess.... PM me sometime, it would be good to catch up, been missing you on here
sara