I think this thread might have been posted in non jovi forum but my question is related to Jovi music too ... I am apologizing by advance to the long time posters if you have already replied many times at threads like this one ...

Ok here is the message .. I love to listen to music and more especially to Bon Jovi music songs lyrics and so on ... but my appreciation is very basic as I am not able to play any instrument .... I just admire the guys as musicians (so I love the live shows so much because I can see what I hear )

so for those who can play instruments .. does it influence you to judge a Jovi song good or not good ? do you listen to jovi with your heart or with your musician ability ? is it important for you to have a technical vision of the guys' music or do you basically enjoy it simply like : I like this because it talks to me ....or is it more .. I like this because technicaly it's very well done ...

Is playing music something more appealing for guys/men ? I can't play at all nor any of my daughters do (I am though admiring musicians skills every much and I dreaming I can play and I'd love to be able to but don't go further) ... but my husband began to learn alone piano and saxophone 2 years ago ... he is 55 LOL but is passionate like a kid ...