And just for the record - the Red Bank Rockers show on 1998-01 31 showcased Bruce and Jon and Southside - all singing each others songs. There are soundboard recordings of this ie. Red Bank Rockers or Blood on Blood and Crystal Cat audience recordings - Red Bank Night.
It was not the entire Bon Jovi band as Tico wasn't there though Richie and David were. Here is a text file I have:
JON BON JOVI, SPRINGSTEEN & FRIENDS
A Benefit for the Sgt. Patrick King Memorial Fund
Venue: Count Basie Theater
City: Red Bank, NJ
Date: Jan 31, 1998
Source: Soundboard recording
Label: Fakida Records (FRS 07/09)
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DISC 1:
01. 'Intro by Danny Devito'
02. This Time It's For Real
03. Two Hearts
04. Bad Medicine
05. Until The Good Is Gone
06. Tenth Avenue Freeze-Out
07. Broke Down Piece Of Man
08. Hard Times Come Easy
09. Love's Glory
10. There Goes My Baby
11. This Time Baby's Gone For Good
12. You Give Love A Bad Name
DISC 2:
01. The Promised Land
02. All I Needed Was You
03. Someday I'll Be Saturday Night
04. Bobby Jean
05. Blood On Blood
06. The Fever
07. I've Been Working Too Hard / Little Queenie
08. I Don't Want To Go Home
09. It's Been A Long Time
10. Wanted Dead Or Alive
DISC 3:
01. Backstreets
02. Forever
03. Livin' On A Prayer
04. Badlands
05. I Played The Fool
06. Keep The Faith
07. Born To Run
08. Rockin' All Over The World
09. Treat Her Right
10. Thunder Road
liner notes:
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"On January 31, 1998, 20 musicians with ties to the Jersey shore music scene answered Jon Bon Jovi's call and gathered at the historic Count Basie Theater in Red Bank, New Jersey. The evening's purpose was to honor slain Long Branch police officer Sgt. Patrick King, and to raise money for a fund to provide for his family.
Fans of the assembled musicians were in for a special night. For Springsteen fans in particular, the show offered a near-reunion of the fabled E Street Band and Bruce's first full-length electric gig following the acoustic Joad Tour.
Three years later, Fakida Records proudly presents the sounboard recording of this special night to the fans"
Musicians:
Bobby Bandiera
Jon Bon Jovi
Everett Bradley
David Bryan
Clarence Clemons
Rusty Cloud
Jerry Cohen
Danny Federici
Southside Johnny Lyon
Edward Manion
Hugh McDonald
Shawn Pelton
Mark Pender
Richie La Bamba Rosenberg
Richie Sambora
Patti Scalfia
Bruce Springsteen
Joey Stann
Tico Torres
Little Steven Van Zandt
Max Weinberg
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