I like Disturbed, so I may be a tad biased here, but I see nowhere where any member of the band bashes BJ. Sure, they celebrate beating them. Sure, a couple of over zealous fans may have the odd bash. Who remembers the days of yore on this message board when everyone signed up to another bands board, (was it the Def Leppard board?) just to go and bash them (that was amusing. Wrong perhaps, but amusing). Most people over on the Disturbed board seem to have a bit of respect for BJ anyway.
They all do appear to love Disturbed a lot. Makes you wonder how different it would be over there if Seb was a Disturbed fan
