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spunkywho · #61 05-03-2005, 07:49 PM

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i am strongly not ok personnaly about aan older woman gpoing with a kid but didn't they prooved they loved each other and that it wasn't other ppl 's business ?

No. That is not love.

Most sexually abused children will 'think' they love their perpetrator. Most sexually abused victims will not let themselves 'hate' the aggressor, but make up many many excuses and the excuse of 'love' might be just one of them.

It's not ok. Never. No matter how many years have passed and how many years the rapist has spent in jail. Years in jail, do not make it ok.

we had a thread on that in NBJ a while ago.

ok .. i must have read about a differnt person I don't know she was a pedophile ... was she really or is it what the media says...I am realy confused about this tsory .. sorry if what I post is not true then .... we heard about this woman here too but the story was from the outside of the usa so let's say way less passionnate .. I realy didn't know she was a pedophile .. pedophle is never ok and yes they manipulate you .. of course if this woman is prooved as such I -remove- what i said then ... and then i'll talk in a general way ...

a pedophile is an adult having sex with a minor. She was in her 30s he was 14. That makes it a pedophile. There is no mutual consent between an adult and a minor.

I know that often the story was romanticised and people wanted to look at it in the way of 'love knows no age', but to me it is just a very very sick example of child molestation.

Jovimimi · #62 05-03-2005, 07:52 PM

Ok you are right ... it was a bad choice from me .. I just recalled the fact she was the evil (more than woody allen ) and i thought it wasn't fair as a woman to get that ... like the iranian women can get assasinated for cheating .. it's the classic case of women is devilised more than any men for the same sin ...

spunkywho · #63 05-03-2005, 07:57 PM

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Ok you are right ...

of course I am :P

I do agree with the rest of it though, that women are always demonized rather quickly and men get the easy way out

Jovimimi · #64 05-03-2005, 08:04 PM

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Ok you are right ...

of course I am :P

I do agree with the rest of it though, that women are always demonized rather quickly and men get the easy way out

voila this is what I meant ... pheewwww i was tough LOL I need time to clear up what I wanna say ...that my brain ...

Urbanjovi · #65 05-03-2005, 10:41 PM

Sorry guys, I did see the segment on Extra but my husband was talking during some of it

and I was not tuned into what they were playing in the background. I tried to play the video at the Extra site but for some reason it won't play for me. If I can get it to play I will let you know.

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