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Old 09-23-2003, 07:04 PM
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Aloha !

Family can let you down just as your friends. Your mother can let you down as well. It's hard to imagine but it's true.

Salaam Aleikum,
Sebastiaan
As being a mother of 5, and you being just a 19 year old guy with maybe a lot of frustrations about you mother...I can say..and I defend no matter what: the love of a motheris always there. If for any reason a mother will ave to let a child go it`s gonna hurt like nothing else.
There is nothing to describe the opain a mother has to go through to give birth to her child and the hardest thing in the world is when she has to say goodbye..( when she has to bury her kid or elsewhere).
I know, I have been there. IAnd I am def. no exception.
So..don`t make statements when you are not able to judge or feel or know!
I wouldn't make a blanket statement like that as I am sure you do not know ALL MOTHERS. As a devoted mother of 5, I am sure you cannot imagine a mother not loving her child or letting the child down. It happens, though, every single day. So, I don't think you could possibly speak for all mothers.

What right do you have to tell someone, what they feel isn't right??????? Or even more so, that they don't feel?
Yes I def think I can judge, cause someone is judging mothers.
Yes, maybe I am devoted to my kids, thank Goddess I am, and I do know the pain and sorrow soem ofmothers have to go through, and some kids have to go through. I see a lot ofreally awful things happening at work, mothers who we think, are to bleame by not taking care of their kids, don1t give them the love they deserve. But, believe me, there is always a reason and always lots of pain!!!!Both sides.
When a mother decides to give he child away she is not doing it because it`s fun. It hurts..but not everyone is as strong as the priviliged ones among us.
Never judge without knowing.
I still stick to my opinion cause it is so easy tojudge and so difficult to forgive and to understand
And I don`t think I have rights just opinions and no judging!
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