Aloha !
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Originally Posted by inge
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When I said your mother can let you down, I didn't mean Marijke's mother, I just ment it in general
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I do know you don`t talk about me,,,what I don`t understand is why you involve marijke into a discussion wher I give my personal opinion |
Marijke started this topic. I replied on it, and you replied after that defending that mothers never let you down. You agreed with Marijke. And I just took Marijke as an example to say I wasn't talking about Marijke's mother but just in general.
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me just because I'm a 19 year old guy I am not able to judge. You don't have to be 35 or something to be able to judge about that. If I'd not be able to judge about it
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I do honestly think a man( whatever age he is) is never able to know a mothers feelings cause they are very specifick. So a male caqn`t talk about feelings he doesn`t have and never can have because he never will be a mother. Just biological not possible you know
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I am not talking about the feelings of a mother, I was talking about a mother who can let you down. Sure I can not feel like a mother does, but you can't feel like a son or a daughter does. You're a daughter yourself, but as long as you haven't been in a situation you do not know you are not able to judge about it.
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And a mother who lets her child down isn't always giving the child away. It's also possible that a mother could not support her child in very important decisions in his/her life.
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I know sometomes mothers don`t support kids the way kids would want them to do..tell me..my mother never did when I needed her to do so. But that doesn`t mean she didn`t love me. She did in her own way and with some conditions. She wanted me to be a copy of herself..I wasn`t ..that doesn`t make her love me less.[/quote]
I wasn't talking about not loving the child. I never said the mother of the situation I am talking about didn't love her child. But a mother can let you down. That was just my statement.
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just a quote to make this less serious
Mothers know all about their children, their friends, their appointments, their love their wishes and their dreams. Fathers are just vagely aware of those little humans walking around in the house.
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Might be less serious, but you say we men are not able to know a mothers feelings but are you able to know the fathers feelings ?
Salaam Aleikum,
Sebastiaan
09-24-2003, 09:30 AM
