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Old 06-02-2004, 08:17 AM
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It's a song about attachment to a love-lost and constains some of Jon's best lyrics...I'm convinced most people just completely miss their meaning.

I don't care what Jon said....I'm not buying it because the lyrics do NOT support his claims...and for him to pull this out of his arse 10 years later.....uh uh.

However....he's justified in finding it amusing that anyone would use it as their wedding song. It just goes to show how blindly people run around in the world.
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Let everone make their own deception about the song and that way it is gonna make a lasting impression on every fan. If you tell them what a song is about than it just might ruin it for half your fans...

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Old 06-02-2004, 02:13 PM
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The chrous of always would make an ideal wedding song, I think the lyrics fit perfectly. I reckon the whole song is about unrequited love (although the video suggests different). I just think Jon made that whole "stalker" story up for Bogarta. He certainly never mentioned it being about a stalker when Always was released.
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when singers tell you the reasons behidn their stories, they can be lies half truths and downright bullshit.

It tells a better story and gets a little laugh if you say people think this is a love song but its actually about a stalker than if you say, people think this is a love song and it is.

A guys lost his woman, he's feelign shitty, join the club. the end. thats Always.
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i always thought of the song "always" as a love song, but ive heard that apparantly its about a stalker who cant let go of his ex-girlfriend, and ive started listening to it in a different way now cos of that! now that i think of it, it does seem to be about obsession! which is funny cos apparantly loads of ppl have had it played at their weddings, thinking its a regular love song. i can see why youd think it is a love song (its got "romeo" in it for a start so that gets u thinking of eternal love and romance) but at the same time u can also interpret it as a stalker's song.
what do u ppl think of it?
It is both. Of course it is a love song, the stalker loves the one who is meant in the song. It is an obsessed love.

By the way, Romeo is mentioned because originally the song was written for the movie "Romeo is bleeding".
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By the way, Romeo is mentioned because originally the song was written for the movie "Romeo is bleeding".
It is completely irrelevant what a song was written for. The lyrics do not support a stalker motive - the end. If he truly wanted to write a stalker song, he failed miserably.
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I wish i could write miserable failures that stayed int he charts for months :P
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I wish i could write miserable failures that stayed int he charts for months :P
:P :P you know what I meant. :P
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But the more I listened to it, the more I realized that it was a song about a guy who was having difficulty letting go after a breakup, so he begins to follow the girl in hopes that she will go back to him. In other words, yeah, its a stalker song. :P
having difficulty letting go, doesn't make one a stalker and I don't find any reference of him following her. Definitely not a stalker song - even though he wanted to write one - now If I was your Mother would classify much easier as a stalker song.

it seems to me that people don't know the difference between stalkers and broken hearted. There IS a difference. Many people have lost someone precious, but that doesn't mean everybody becomes a stalker.
Please don't mix these words.
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By the way, Romeo is mentioned because originally the song was written for the movie "Romeo is bleeding".
It is completely irrelevant what a song was written for. The lyrics do not support a stalker motive - the end. If he truly wanted to write a stalker song, he failed miserably.
Amen...exactly my point.
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