I've only been a Bon Jovi fan since Crush and only seen 2 live shows but at each of them I've had the same question ... is it ok for a guy to "Raise your Hands" durring the shows? Each time that song was played I sort of looked around and did sort of a half up-half down thing and noticed most of the other guys in attendance doing much the same thing. So when the summer stadium shows come around do I let loose and raise them or leave it to the girls?