jon...a gay?

thats not what he told me..

Rob Halford wore tight clothes and screamed. He was gay. There's no way of saying if someone is or isn't gay by the way they dress or how they act or talk. Not even how they live. The only thing gay people do differently than heterosexuals is that they have sex with people of the same sex. No other differences. Anyone who claims otherwise lies. Ask all the gay people you know. They'll tell you.

Ice

some of my gay friends don't like football, they love to cook, go shopping with me etc. they are just like many of my female friends
(and some of them also dress funny :P )

So? So do lots of straight guys also. The fact you don't know them doesn't mean they don't exist. You can't judge a book by it's cover or a man by his clothes.

Ice

I know some gay men who go out of their way trying to emphasising their gayness. They dress in a noticeable manner, talk in a feminine way, use feminine gestures etc... And they're interested in things that are usually associated with femininity.

i do know that but you stated the following:

so obviously some gays are different to some other heterosexuals. tell me if i'm mistaken

And that's still true. Are you saying all heterosexual men like football, hate to cook and hate to shop? If not, then you're contradicting yourself. Each person is an individual, everyone lives as they please. And what ever you'd like to think, you can't tell if someone is gay by how they look or act.

Yes, you are. Some gays are different, but so are some heterosexuals. You can not define someones sexuality by any other difference but the actual sexuality. Go see a few movies and then tell me what you think. Far From Heaven and Streets Of Philadelphia are pretty good on the subject.

Ice

ok people

lets just drop this whole how you define a gay person / straight person please
before someone gets offended

i'm sorry but i still think that sometimes gays can be noticed by the way they speak, dress and act in general. and i do speak from experience. but of course it's just my opinion and not be taken as a fact.

don't worry. goose. we will behave ourselves, i promise