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Originally Posted by Captain_jovi
There's realism and saying things like "When will you people learn?" that just suck the fun out of it if you're a new fan. Walleris isn't wrong but the delivery sometimes is a tad harsh.
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That's fair. I stand by my original point, but I should've deleted that last sentence (the one you quoted). It didn't add any value to the argument, but made the overall sentiment harsher than necessary. Sorry about this, as well as contributing to this offtopic.
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Originally Posted by manarosi
This is exactly what i mean, i can hear by myself that jon is a really bad singer nowadays but that's not the point. i'm not saying that he doesn't have to share his opinions,but It doesn't mean that he can "insult" anybody that has a different opinion every single time
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I'd argue that your reply towards me was more insulting than what I originally written. I didn't go after anyone specifically, didn't call any names or bad adjectives; I said "people". Even if my delivery wasn't the most polite, it didn't wasn't offensive (unless you're Jon), nor did it break any rules.
However, I do somewhat understand your view, because I felt the same way when I first came here. I was mostly a happy fan while Supersonic seemed like a 'hater' to me. Not sure if that is you being new on this board or a new fan altogether, but I think we all go through phases. Bon Jovi is a favorite band to all of us and after many years and a healthy number of disappointments (e.g. vocal declines, lackluster albums, departure and substance abuse of a former member) we are all honest with ourselves. I'm not all negative - I liked the last record, I loved the HOF induction news, I love certain performances that bonjovi90 and other people post here regularly and my posts prove it. But if we're discussing one of the subjects I'm previously listed, I speak what I feel with no filter.
Unless we're being attacked directly, it's up to us to ignore the posts/people that we feel do not contribute, because questioning another person's motives for being a member here if he 'hates everything' or asking him to 'stop doin this' when there weren't any rules being broken is certainly isn't of any value either. Just move on then.