I pretty much agree with what you are saying Rob, I guess it just offends me to see such mass generalizations being made and written with absolute belief and faith that "Jon's female fans" are such and such, when I know it isn't true.

I do understand why the guys get bored if we girls talk about how hot Jon looked or how sexy Richie was when that isn't what appeals to you about the band or the part of the shows you want to hear about, I'd feel the same probably if we were reviewinga female artist and all the comments were about her boobs and butt etc..... but I do understand that it is part of the experience and if someone gets a chance to be up close and personal that it is a big deal to them. It just offends me when someone mass categorizes fans, makes a judgement about who you must be, if you appreciate this etc...