I know what you mean. Rob and I have even talked about it before--how a women don't get taken seriously if they like music created by handsome men. It's as if the world thinks we're all shallow. But, you know what, I honestly am starting to think it's really a reflection of the person making that judgement call. Maybe THAT person is so shallow that he/she goes to shows for "eyecandy" and therefore generalizes that everyone else does too.

To me, I guess it's a bonus, but it's not why I'm there. I looked up the review I wrote of Omaha because I knew I wrote it spur of the moment, just what I felt and what I heard and what I saw. Not once did I say that Jon's ass looked great or his facial features were finely chiseled. LOL In fact, when I referenced what the girls whom I went with had to say about the show, it was how they appreciated that he really sings his own stuff and sounds good doing it. Even they didn't say a word about anyone's looks, or if they did, it's not what I brought home in my memories.

I think tweety just made a great point--don't let what other people assume and what judgements they pass ruin your experience.