I think it would be more appropriate to compare two European shows with thow European shows - the set are always better in Europe, especially in Germany.
I don't understand what's your point. You are repeating over and over that the band was great in the 90s. I think everybody knows that. You just can't admit that some people are enjoying the shows even today. Well, it's a fact. At least they are touring US - something that didn't happen with These Days, whose tour was only in Japan and Europe.
I agree with you, that the last setlist were the same, no rotation and it really pisses me. But I can't deny that, even if they played the same set as the night before, might played a very good high-energy show, which the fans enjoyed. Remember that the majority of fans sees the band once and they are fine with that. And remember that almost every band has static setlist. I know you love Queen, I love them too but the played the same set for the whole tours. And because Bon Jovi decided to include the moving screens and make the show more organized, they are playing it safe the way they have it tried out. Do I need the screens there? No. I'd be much happier when there were no screens and all of the special effect if they would play more varied setlists. I can't do anything with this. Believe me that I don't like the seltist that much, because they are not changing and I hate the first part of the set after opening songs, which is very boring but I must admit that there are parts of the setlist which I really like the way they are performed. You have no proof for your "facts". It is easy to write off the LH tour because you don't like the album, but when you don't attend any show and don't listen to bootlegs, you can't know whether it was good or not. And even if the HaND album is milion times better than the country crap on LH, the HaND tour was much worse.
And it really doesn't make sense to bitch about it all over and over again. If you like U2 shows better, then fine, go and enjoy them. But I don't see the reason to spoil someone's good memories from recent Bon Jovi shows. You have admit that every person is different and like different things. And beleive it, there are some LH lovers (unbelievable, right?

). And sadly, LH was quite successful in US (it was meant for this market) so the band plays many songs from it. They have always played the popular songs. And when the lame US crowds response better to LH song then to classics, it is logical for the band to play them. They played the hits and favourite tracks from SWW and NJ on my beloved Jersey tour for the same reason, the first two albums had only one song each in the set - because they weren't as successful. But I think there were diehards wanting to hear Hardest Part Is The Night again, since it's a great song. And we could continue this way forever. The band reacts almost the same, it the audience, I mean the big casual audience, which has changes, the chicks in 1980s are grown up housewifes who appreciate something different now. And rock and roll music is loosing its position so I think we should be glad for what we have - still a big band, selling records (less now then earlier), touring and selling out big venues and still able to present at the mainstream scale, which is changing.