OK, but most of the fans on this site are NOT average fans... they're the most devoted. And like it or not, although sometimes we feel like we deserve some sort of special reward for that, the band can't cater to us! They can't cater to the fringe element who have every fart ever recorded on every bootleg making the rounds. If you want to wear a badge of merit noting to all how many shows you've been to or how many bootlegs you have, that's fine but this band has a lot of fans who will never visit these message boards and never be as die-hard as fans on this site are... the band has to factor that into their shows. They have to. As much as I'd love to hear b-sides and demos and songs they've haven't performing live in years, I'm not the majority of people at a Bon Jovi show.