Bremen review - Laura and Taija

hm sorry i just didnt see you stating that fact before (i mean, that nobody is reading their and your reviews. i for sure was. but thats not the point i know). please dont regard this as a personal attack from me upon you, because it wasnt intended to be one. oh and one more thing:

there were NOT "many" statements from me to you in such a way. i can only remember one so far.

How is the below ( v ) not stating "that fact" ?

The question remains also, why should i have to state that fact and even if hypothetically my only interest in this was because Laura is my girlfriend then why should that be fuel for you to say I wouldn't "give a damn" otherwise - you seem to have been worked up about something even if this is the only time you are aware of it...

maybe because of the fact that you treat your friends like they dont matter? i mean i thought we were friends but you never even say hello anymore, not even on msn. i totally understand that you are in love with laura and everything and thats fine, but it seems to me that whenever someone does not agree with you you get totally worked up about that and all at once this person is attacking you or whatever. you have always stood up for your opinion and even if i didnt agree with you i totally respected that because you were somebody. you didnt change your opinion and you didnt care what anyone was thinking. i really admired that. but now to me it seems this has totally gotten out of hand and you upset people and treat them like you are superior to them. thats what i dont like. i hate to think that we cant be friends anymore because of this. i dont understand what happened, i thought we got on really well in summer. it is sad.

I don't know what the problem is though, I am chatting to tom all the time now and i've met him on tour also and he didn't ignored me or what so ever.

Lucky you

I've you are in a war with someone talk about it privately..

1) A hell can come from one of two people in the conversation, and I could just as easily say the same the other way round. In fact I have said the same the other way around.

2) You've barely been online anyway or if you have it says you are in a lesson - not even on JT that much recently

3) talk to anyone i do talk to: thierry, seb, edwin etc and ask them if i am superior to them or that i don't talk to friends anymore

4) I've been busy, you appear to have been busy

Therefore...

is completely incorrect and hurtful.

First off that is something that didn't concern you and has been sorted since with mousebounce and goose etc, and I still think there was some truth to that... Laura thought the same also, and for example we were certainly getting a lot more comments because of her being a mod than perhaps other people who just flirt on here and don't have anything happening for real.

I hate to say this, but I haven't changed... and maybe you just thought you knew a different me then, but I'm still the same Tom or letitrock I was in July, August etc - I don't think of myself as a bad person, but if you say I am them perhaps you are right.

The only thing that has changed about me is that Laura has come into my life. My opinions are still the same and if nothing else I'm a lot less "arrogant" in your opinion now than I was before, during and shortly after the tour. I've not been on here as much since and my posts have even tamed, or I've stayed out of things. So it seems that you liked the "old" me that was more argumentative and troublesome more than "this" me, even though the two are still the same...

That suggests to me that I've done something specific that you haven't mentioned for your opinions to change about me

I don't want a "war" either - so talk to me on MSN about this if you like or email/PM but i don't see how i have changed at all other than in my relationship...

i didnt think i was in a war with him

what are we talking about here? i dont understand what you are referring to. seems like i have missed something