OK...well I'll show you guys an example, so you can see what I'm getting at.
Here are some pics I took when the WWE came to australia.
My camera allows me to turn the flash on and off, so i have taht option, but if your camera is an auto, like the above post, well you gotta just cross your fingers.


Flash ON


Flash OFF


Note: In the shot with the flash turned ON, the lighting was like it was in the shot with the flash OFF. See how the flash gets rid of the stage lights.. thats a bad thing boys and girls.
Now the shot with the flash on is not too bad there, but I have many more where you can see just some grey blurrs.