This forum is so not like the Backstage forum. it is far away from that forum as you can get! Believe me.
If you tell us, we wont be nasty or bitchy, we're not like that here, honest!
I'm sure you can tell that we are very different and we are all die-hard fans who don't just love the band for Jon, we love the band for who they are and for the music first and formost.
But hey, it's up to you! Do what you feel is right.

I don't want to pressure you in any way ok?!
I just think it is very cool and special when Jon recognises someone and shows them that much affection, for whatever reason. That kind of thing doesn't happen that often!