you're going to a jovi show and you're dying to see that song played live. you get 2 picks: 1 realistic and 1 semi-realistic/unrealistic one.

realistic request ~ in these arms

i'd be torn between "in these arms" and "dry county". "dry country" is a better song but "in these arms" puts a gigantic smile on my face for the whole evening and quite possibly the day after (they could even play WFTWM right after, that it wouldn't bother me). i love both songs but in different ways, and all things considered i'd pick "in these arms".

semi-realistic/unrealistic request ~ if i was your mother

my obvious choice would be "wild is the wind" but i don't love how it sounds live (only seen it on youtube though). "dirty little secret" and "thorn in my side" would be great candidates as well, but i'd love to hear them play something heavier than usual and well, it's a song i really love.

now, even if you go to multiple shows, you can only pick 1 song from each category. otherwise it would be cheating
what would your requests be?