I don't agree. All these guys have families. They don't want to leave home for months on end without seeing them. They (mostly Jon) have other outlets, such as producing, acting, writing, art. The band doesn't have to be their entire life. They've done that before, and it almost split them up. The reason they've made it this long without killing each other is that they're able to take time to do their own things, come back to the band, but not drive tours into the ground by playing 250 shows a year.