Woah, wait a minute!!! I am so sick and tired of hearing that I (or any other woman!) can't possibly be a true fan of Bon Jovi because I find them to be attractive! Good looks only get you so far. Look at the boy bands....they came, they saw, they disappeared. If I was only into Bon Jovi for Jon (or Richie or Tico's!) good looks, I wouldn't have stuck around for the last 17 years or so. To me, their good looks are simply an added bonus to the great music. I don't have posters of them all over my walls, I don't drool over Jon every time I see him. I do however, love their music. It is one of the very few things in life I can say I honestly enjoy. I'm usually a very shy and reserved person in everyday life. But, I'll be one of the first people to admit that I let loose when I go to a concert, especially Bon Jovi. It's the music though that gets me going. It makes me want to sing along (to every song, not just It's My Life) and clap and dance. When I cheer and yell, it's usually because they are playing a song I love. Call me whatever you want, I really don't care. Just don't tell me that I can't be a true fan because of that! I don't believe any of you boys can honestly tell me that you wouldn't get a kick out of 10's of thousands of women screaming over you on stage!!!!! And don't tell me that their aren't any female musicians whose music you like, yet still find them to be attractive! I'm sorry that you didn't have a good time, but don't blame others for that. OK, now I need some more of you girls to stand up with me here!!!!