Originally Posted by Supersonic

Aloha !



The way you motivate your reasoning is the exact same way kids do as well. They tell a classmate they're assholes for not liking their new shoes, they'll sometimes start a (physical) fight, a teacher will end up breaking them up and will then ask why they start a fight over a pair of shoes. "But he says they look stupid" Do you think they look stupid? "No". Does he need to wear them? "No" Then why do you care?

You do the exact same thing. You make and take things personal just because someone doesn't like something you do. You're not going to change an opinion or way of thinking by telling people they should do as you do just because their way is shit. You'll have to explain why and question their behavior and/or way of thinking by giving arguments that'll make sense. Saying it's not an opera and a singer is therefore allowed to sound like shit is saying "I'm not a Renaissance painter, so why should I color in between the lines?"



Yeah, it's normal for me. I don't give a shit if people hate the things I love. In the end it's their opinion. If they'll give me a bit of a motivation as to why they're feeling the way they do I'll listen and it might change my point of view. If they'll make it personal and insult me I'll most likely take the piss out of them. Now does that sound familiar?

Salaam Aleikum,
Sebastiaan