I have to disagree with you. I saw them in 1993 and in 1995 and I'd Die For You was not played at either one of those shows.

you're right die for you wasnt played on every night, but was definatly one of the most played tracks on either of those tours.

check my bootleg list - with the respective set list to see that - http://mega.ist.utl.pt/~pdsp/old/bonjovi/audio1993,
http://mega.ist.utl.pt/~pdsp/old/bonjovi/audio1995