You know what's sad is, I remember back in 1988, Bon Jovi weekend on MTV. During an interview with Jon, he was talking about how great the band was live (they were), and how he had been to some shows where there was "an invisible wall between the band and the fans", and one thing Bon Jovi couldn't be knocked for, was crowd participation.

Every now and then, I see him pull out one of those nights, but it is far and few between.