I don't remember much about the These Days show I went to because I was so overwhelmed at the time being that it was my firts BJ show (and that I was 11 at the time!!!) but it truly was amazing from what I can recolect.
off the recent years I have to say I enjoyed the 2001 show in detroit the most.Followed by the Bounce show and the last would be when I saw them in 2000 on the crush tour in florida.
But in saying that, the lowest ranking Bon Jovi show would probably be ranked higher than most concerts i've been to.