back on track in order of actual questions ():

bonji1968: Yes, and I will never put myself in a position again where someone could hurt me like that. Unfortunately, my unwillingness to open up emotionally stifles the success rate of any relationships I might find myself in. Generally, I just get bored in relationships and head for the door - well before my partner realizes something's up. Hence, I've got a long list of ex-lovers who hate my guts. Better than getting hurt though



Do you think trust can be learned?