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Old 04-23-2005, 11:33 AM
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And if I fell in love with someone, I'd worship the ground she walked on.

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That's a great reason for someone to lose interest in you the way I see it. It shouldn't be but it is.
Defnetly yes!!!. Adrian if u do that, girl either think u as toooo obessesive or something defnetly wrong with u lol.... Thats best way to make girl runway... .
that's not entirely true! I know what you are trying to get at - the usual nice guys finish last. But I do expect to be worshipped and I wouldn't be with someone who didn't kiss the ground I walked on. But I'll do the same for him. If it is only a one way road, that is when things get sticky and silly phrases are made up.
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that's not entirely true! I know what you are trying to get at - the usual nice guys finish last.
Thats what u want made out of it and not what i trying to say... Stop assuming things more then there is :P

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But I do expect to be worshipped and I wouldn't be with someone who didn't kiss the ground I walked on. But I'll do the same for him.
You ever fall in love with anyone who do it??. Its just nice theory and never really work in real life. If that person is has to worship u, he will be always on ur case and u really feel smotherd at some point.... Just write down all the quility in a man which attracts u and then analyise whether he will able to worship u ever, then u get real answer....

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I know what u get at here, but beleive me u never ever ever ever ever fall in love with someone whos worship u... :P If u ever prove me wrong then i will worship u till the death....
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wrong. a person that uses you never ever loved you.
and someone who loves you would never use you!
Yes that makes sense and I’ll remember that.

‘You can use me in any way’ is not exactly right but the reason why I said that was because I don’t think you can ever do enough for those who you love and love you in return. Of course I don’t want someone to love me just because I have something to offer, but this is for those who loves me unconditionally. If they can do things for me then I can’t just take and not give. Yes ‘use’ is not the right word because we are not using each other but rather we’re there for one another. And I suppose this is a not a reason for someone to love me but it’s what I’ll do for those who love me as a ‘whole package’ (as what other have discussed before). Maybe it’s the same as saying something mushy like ‘I’m yours’ .
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If someone tells me that they worship me I'll be really really flattered but I think I would hesitate in getting into a relationship with them because I don't like the idea of someone who I love thinking that they'll never be good enough for me becuase I'm up there. I think it's better to have the two people on equal grounds. But since Spunky said that she'll also worship the person who worships her then they are gonna be on equal grounds , so maybe it'll work out.

For me the word admire sounds better.
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wrong. a person that uses you never ever loved you.
and someone who loves you would never use you!
Yes that makes sense and I’ll remember that.

‘You can use me in any way’ is not exactly right but the reason why I said that was because I don’t think you can ever do enough for those who you love and love you in return. Of course I don’t want someone to love me just because I have something to offer, but this is for those who loves me unconditionally. If they can do things for me then I can’t just take and not give. Yes ‘use’ is not the right word because we are not using each other but rather we’re there for one another. And I suppose this is a not a reason for someone to love me but it’s what I’ll do for those who love me as a ‘whole package’ (as what other have discussed before). Maybe it’s the same as saying something mushy like ‘I’m yours’ .
You seem like very sweet inocent girl Watch out for big mean world
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Five reasons for someone to love me:
1)I make really good macaroni and cheese
2)I'm brutally honest
3)I don't give a $hit what people think of me
4)I'm independant, therefore avoiding the whole clingy girlfriend thing
5)I know when I'm wrong and can admit it

OK those are pretty crappy reasons but those are about the only good things about me
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^^^Hey, #1's a good reason. Mac and cheese is quite possibly the greatest food on earth.

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For me the word admire sounds better.
yes I guess that is a better word.
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I know what u get at here, but beleive me u never ever ever ever ever fall in love with someone whos worship u... :P If u ever prove me wrong then i will worship u till the death....
that is because of my habit of dating assholes.

Worship is a pretty strong word as Missy pointed out and probably not the right one either. Respect is probably better.


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But I do expect to be worshipped and I wouldn't be with someone who didn't kiss the ground I walked on. But I'll do the same for him.
You ever fall in love with anyone who do it??. Its just nice theory and never really work in real life. If that person is has to worship u, he will be always on ur case and u really feel smotherd at some point.... Just write down all the quility in a man which attracts u and then analyise whether he will able to worship u ever, then u get real answer....

That is not the kind of worship I was thinking of. I get the smothered feeling really easy and yes if someone was always on my case, I'd be out of there. But I want someone respecting me in every way with all my weirdness and all my sillyness. Someone who never talks down on me and who goes out of his way to do nice things for me. I guess that is worship to me. To not compare with others but to think this other person is the best person in their own ways.

Still, Allwyn, you might be right, but I can still dream right???
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And if I fell in love with someone, I'd worship the ground she walked on.

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That's a great reason for someone to lose interest in you the way I see it. It shouldn't be but it is.
Defnetly yes!!!. Adrian if u do that, girl either think u as toooo obessesive or something defnetly wrong with u lol.... Thats best way to make girl runway...

And i been thinking, thinking thinking...... but its been hard to come up with any sort of reason why someone should love for whats so ever lol. Someone asked me that why should i love u and i really didn't have any answer whats so ever....

Well all i can think is i'm not good talker at all but i can be good listner (not for everyone for sure lol) and can be very talkitive with person who i'm comfortable with.....
Hurting someone never crosses my mind and if something i done hurt someone, i usualy never hesistate to say sorry...
I never get angry easly and even get angry its only for a moment, so i can be very patient(well i think i'm too patient at sometimes)....
I'm terrible lier and usualy never lie and i'm faithful....
I always like my wife or lover to be independent and persue ther career instead of just stuck at home doing all house hold things...
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next time someone asks you why they should love you, say because I am me. Being you should be enough of a reason why you should be loved.

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