A question for the women...
Are there any others out there who don't want to have kids??
I'm 34yrs old and I've never really felt a great need to have children. Probably came from how I grew up, I don't know.
I have always gotten some flak from other women when I said that I don't want kids, they were like "what's wrong with you?"
I'm not alone, three of my friends don't want to have children either.
I've also lost two boyfriends because I don't want to have
children.
Anyhow, two years ago, my GYN told me that my chances of ever getting pregnant are about the same as winning the lottery. That it would be extremly difficult. I wasn't upset about this at all. Just saw it as another sign that I had made the right choice.
I just want to know if there are any other women here, who feel the same as I do.
But often times, I am made to feel bad by other women, because I don't have kids. And when I say that I don't want them..oh lordy, I don't want to go there. But let's just say that one woman even said that I must be a lesbian or something.
Okay I'm babbling, it's time for me to shut up.
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If you go to war with yourself
And it’s just you and no one else
Call out to me
Reach out to me
And I’ll be there for you
And even if you lose yourself
I’ll follow you anywhere…
~Apathy "Anywhere"
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