Anyone know what happens in a man's brain?

I really don't understand some guys anymore. So here's the story (I know it's wasted time but maybe you are bored...and I know there are a lot of such people here):

So, I came together with a boy almost 2 weeks ago, we had a nice week-end and last friday was just...well...great. Anyway, I was so happy to have a bf again after I had been a single for so long. So last friday everything was ok, the night was much too short and that's why we wanted to meet on saturday, too. So we met at club but he was totally different (I already know him longer than these 2 weeks). Well, an hour later a firend of us came. He wanted to talk to her and so I was waiting. I thought she might find out what was up but then she came back alone and said that he would want to talk to me. Well, so we did and then he said that it was over, that he's sorry but he couldn't love me but wished that we would stay just friends. I mean, hey, the night before and the week before he could and not even that bad. So what the hell could have happened during these 20 hours. He said that he had thought about it when when I asked him about what he couldn't answer. I mean, that absolutely isn't him. I was shocked, his, our and my friends were shocked and even he didn't look really good. I know that he never had any one-night-stands (would have been known, you know everything what has happened here one day later) So if anyone can explain that please do it. I don't know if they take their last bit of brain at the services. I can't even ask my friends for help, they all have problems with their guys right now. Do we have a season when men go crazy or what is up?

Men are just weird.....

Maybe a guy should answer your question though..

Tash

I hope anyone of the guys can, I've already asked some of my male friends but they didn't expect that either. Anyhow I feel like life doesn't like me at the moment...

I know it's not nice, but don't let someone dictate your feelings. You are worth more than that!! He is the one with no self respect and if he treats you like that, maybe you're better off without him.

Tash

men are controlled by their nuts.....fact.

sounds like an idiot if you ask me. obviously not worth the hassle.

I try not to figure out what's going on in the mind of men...if there actually is anything going on

Stephanie

Well, that was what my mom said, too. "If this idiot doesn't want you then kick him to the moon."...the only problem is that I still love this idiot. I don't even know why. I mean, usually I know that I get a refusal before it happens, then I can live with it and so it's ok but this time it came suddenly. His best friend still doesn't know why he did it.

Exactly! If he doesn't like you the way you are and if he isn't proub for you being his girlfriend, he isn't even worth you!

-> my first thought when he said that it was over

That's the problem, your ego has been bruised. Believe me, if a friend was telling you this, you'd say the same as me! You don't still love him, it's just that you haven't had time to process the lost. Also ask yourself why you would want to love someone who treats you with such little respect? That isn't someone I would want in my life, in all aspects of my life.

Tash