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Old 11-26-2003, 10:21 PM
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That's the problem, your ego has been bruised. Believe me, if a friend was telling you this, you'd say the same as me! You don't still love him, it's just that you haven't had time to process the lost. Also ask yourself why you would want to love someone who treats you with such little respect? That isn't someone I would want in my life, in all aspects of my life.

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Nicely put Tash. If the guy treats you with little respect, find someone else. No one deserves to be treated that way.

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Old 11-26-2003, 10:25 PM
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Also ask yourself why you would want to love someone who treats you with such little respect? That isn't someone I would want in my life, in all aspects of my life.
Because even after that he was treating me better than any guy before. Honestly, that ws the nicest refusal I ever got (ya, I had a lot, and ya I admit that from time to time I like to give someone else a refusal. Even the same day, 3 hours after he told me that I was kicking someone to the moon...maybe I should have been a bit nicer).
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Exactly, put yourself in front position. He can go if he doesn't treat you right!
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Old 11-26-2003, 10:27 PM
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Ok...so I should conclude: "get rid of him" ??? Why is it just so hard to think of that?
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easy to say...
But actually, I agree....
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Old 11-26-2003, 10:30 PM
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Also ask yourself why you would want to love someone who treats you with such little respect? That isn't someone I would want in my life, in all aspects of my life.
Because even after that he was treating me better than any guy before. Honestly, that ws the nicest refusal I ever got (ya, I had a lot, and ya I admit that from time to time I like to give someone else a refusal. Even the same day, 3 hours after he told me that I was kicking someone to the moon...maybe I should have been a bit nicer).
Okay, not trying to kick you when you're down, but you have to figure out why these guys are like that with you. You are obviously telling them that it is okay to treat you this way! I don't mean that nastily, but we all do it at sometime or another, you teach people how to treat you. These guys are losers and you are letting them treat you with no respect. You seem like an intelligent, friendly girl, don't let anyone walk all over you!!

Again, hope I didn't hurt your feelings..

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ok, so I gotta get used to the thought that I should just go (horrible thought but I guess it's necessary)...but I still don't know why he did it...anyone knows any reason?
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If only I knew....
Guys are just complicated. I'm sorry, I;m not a hero around the guys too.
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ok, so I gotta get used to the thought that I should just go (horrible thought but I guess it's necessary)...but I still don't know why he did it...anyone knows any reason?
Not important why!! He's a b*stard and therefore you should not waste your time on him.

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