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Old 11-26-2003, 10:34 PM
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men are controlled by their nuts.....fact.
Oh, so I *do* understand men, then! LOL

If you've already slept with the guy (which your message implied), then why would he bother with you anymore? He got what he wanted. You deserve to be treated better than that. He's not worth it. Chalk it up to a lesson learned and find a guy worth your time and affection.

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Okay, not trying to kick you when you're down, but you have to figure out why these guys are like that with you. You are obviously telling them that it is okay to treat you this way! I don't mean that nastily, but we all do it at sometime or another, you teach people how to treat you. These guys are losers and you are letting them treat you with no respect. You seem like an intelligent, friendly girl, don't let anyone walk all over you!!

Again, hope I didn't hurt your feelings..

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No, no, you didn't, like I said I've heard worse things...and no...I can't remember that I made anyone think that they could treat me like that, I just know that it's usual that men (and I don't even wanna talk about most women) aren't very friendly here. Some others had the same problems before...but even they still don't know why everything happened like this.
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The thing is, you are letting them, but they are the problem! If you have to worry about everyone all of the time you'd go crazy. Focus on yourself, making yourself happy and respecting yourself and I guarantee the rest will follow. If you don't respect yourself, why do you think someone else would?

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If you've already slept with the guy (which your message implied), then why would he bother with you anymore? Becky
Because it needs years (and ya, I mean years) to find someone here (just becasue there aren't many people, you rarely meet someone new). I know that he's not the kind of guy who can spend a night with anyone he doesn't like or with a stranger or with someone he already knows since his childhood. I know you don't know him but if you did you could understand that.
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The thing is, you are letting them, but they are the problem! If you have to worry about everyone all of the time you'd go crazy. Focus on yourself, making yourself happy and respecting yourself and I guarantee the rest will follow. If you don't respect yourself, why do you think someone else would?

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Now that's a point...maybe it's that what I needed to know...
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The thing is, you are letting them, but they are the problem! If you have to worry about everyone all of the time you'd go crazy. Focus on yourself, making yourself happy and respecting yourself and I guarantee the rest will follow. If you don't respect yourself, why do you think someone else would?

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Now that's a point...maybe it's that what I needed to know...
Okay!!! Now what's the plan??

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Okay!!! Now what's the plan??
Getting up, going to the club on saturday (ya, he will be there, like I said you know that all here) and asking him again and again and again why he did it until he gives me a real answer or/and gets a bad conscience. And no matter what will happen then I will feel way better...
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Okay!!! Now what's the plan??
Getting up, going to the club on saturday (ya, he will be there, like I said you know that all here) and asking him again and again and again why he did it until he gives me a real answer or/and gets a bad conscience. And no matter what will happen then I will feel way better...
Sweetie, that's the worst thing you can do!! Why do you need an answer, he is not even worth the ground he walks on. Go clubbing and ignore him. That is the best thing to do, show him what he is missing and remain cool and aloof. Keep your self-respect. The last thing a guy wants is a girl running after him like that. Trust me, been there done that (years ago, mind you!!)

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Sweetie, that's the worst thing you can do!! Why do you need an answer, he is not even worth the ground he walks on. Go clubbing and ignore him. That is the best thing to do, show him what he is missing and remain cool and aloof. Keep your self-respect. The last thing a guy wants is a girl running after him like that. Trust me, been there done that (years ago, mind you!!)

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But I really wanna know why and if he hates me for that (well, he doesn't love me anyway) I wanna know why....ok, mabe I'll think different about that in a few days...
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Sweetie, that's the worst thing you can do!! Why do you need an answer, he is not even worth the ground he walks on. Go clubbing and ignore him. That is the best thing to do, show him what he is missing and remain cool and aloof. Keep your self-respect. The last thing a guy wants is a girl running after him like that. Trust me, been there done that (years ago, mind you!!)

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But I really wanna know why and if he hates me for that (well, he doesn't love me anyway) I wanna know why....ok, mabe I'll think different about that in a few days...
You'll probably never know and he will never give you a good answer anyway. No matter what he says there is no justification for what he did. He honestly isn't worth it. And also, what will you do with the information? Will it make you feel better? Doubtful. Leave it, he doesn't want you anymore so therefore not worth your time or effort.

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