Anyone know what happens in a man's brain?

It is because I've already heard that from a few other guys during the last years and it's really terrible not to know why it is like that but maybe you are right, they just weren't worth it. There will come other times and I'll be out of here and will never have to see them again.

Maybe the guy just didn't feel the same way.... thought he'd give it a try & realised that he just didn't feel the same way & it wasn't worth carrying on.

& that is why he told you that he didn't feel the same way. At least he did tell u this way & not try to string it on & hurt u in the future.

I guess it'll always be a miracle to me how guys can think like that.

Think like what - what is confusing u?

That you just say "ok, let's give it a try, I don't love her at all, there's nothing but maybe that will suddenly come during the next week"

Not all love is instantaneous... thats why you go on dates. Not because u r instantly in love but u want to find out if you have things in common / could fall in love.

He maybe thought he saw something he didn't when it started out. Or he took it too far. I don't know the details, but at least he seems to have been honest & let u know where u stand. Even if it was a few days after u started going out.

Ok, now that sounds really hard but it seems like you guys really think that way. I gotta think about it again...I gotta go sleeping or else I'll go crazy.

[quote="An-U"]Sorry - not meaning to sound hard. I guess u r a little emotional - Maybe he was just a bit insecure??

Maybe, I really don't know it (where we are back at the topic that I don't know why) and ya, I am emotional. He was the only reason I had to come through the last week (everything seems to fall down over m right now but if I start to worry about all that now, too, the nice people with the white clothes will come) and now suddenly he says "Sorry, i don't love you. It's better if I tell it now than in a few weeks." Whatever, I need sleep, I'll write an exam tomorrow and since this week-end I can't think clearly anymore. So good night and thx to everyone who was trying to help me.

Hope it works out ok. Look on the bright side - u now have more time to look for someone that will care about u!!