Anyone know what happens in a man's brain?

honey i hope you feel better. sorry i came so late.. theres really not much left to say now

and about what mike said: dont worry about it. thats the way it is in england, it astonished me too when i lived there! people go out to find out if they like each other enough or not. here its somehow the other way round.... its a bit odd but what can you do

You really should take Tash's advice. There is nothing more to add than what she already put out.

As far a Mike's comment, that is quite normal and not at all strange. It works both ways too, you know. In fact, I have a hard time believing you are "in love" after 2 weeks. You may have had a great deal of affection for that guy, but love takes a bit more.

Hold your head up high and carry on. The one is still out there and you'll find him when you are the least looking.

You know, maybe you came on too strong and scared him off. Who knows, doesn't even matter.

It will get better.

Just to offer a completely different point of view.....

As far as my admittedly rather limited experiences go, 'strong' women who figure they don't need guys, or who will just forget a guy existed when he does something wrong often do themselves out of a good thing. I don't wanna sound harsh, but this guy could have a good reason, and I personally think you owe it to both him and yourself to get an explanation, rather than just figure he's not worth it

Keep On Rockin'

My girlfriend says I have a feminine side. But when she does something to make me mad, she gets the mean side. I am passionate when it comes to her. I treat her with the respect that she deserves and every man should learn to do that. To the main point, not to say women are weak, but they usually are the first to call, the first to care after a fight. If I have a fight with my girlfriend I leave it alone and talk when I am ready to talk. spunky was right. Love isn't 2 weeks of getting to know the person. Love takes months, even years. When you are in love, you know it. Love takes months and I can't really say Heather and I are fully in love but we are getting there. I find it hard to not talk to her one day, and to be 1100 miles away, it makes it even tougher. It is true though.. a guy has sex on the brain. All the time, and a guy that says he doesn't is lying. An-U... I suggest moving on with your life. A strong man would give you a straight up answer. A weak man would do what he did right there. There are guys out there that will love you for who you are and not whats under your clothes. Guys come and go and when you know you are in love, you will feel it in your heart and will see it in his eyes.

Ryan

Ok, the thing is done for me. We were talking about it yesterday night (ya, this time we were really talking). So we came to the conclusion that men are all the same, that it's his fault (yep, he admitted it ) and that we should try to go on as just friends as you can't avoid seeing each other anyway. I mean we have already been just friends a few months before. Ok, we were said that there was more but during these months there wasn't anything except some really well-behaved dates. I just hope that I can keep my hands were they are...

Well Im a girl but have been in this position already before .. I met a guy on a party which I started to like. We kept contact and a few weeks later we were a couple. He told me he fell in love and I felt the same way. That all happened on Thursday ... I went out with him & some friends and the 'love-feeling' was gone. I just had the feeling like :' He's not the one' ... I couldn't explain and when I broke up he didn't believe me at all (he still doesn't) ... But what I said was absolutely true ... I had the butterfly's-feeling but as soon as we got together my feelings changed ... It's weird but some feelings you can't explain ...

Help!!!!!!!!!!
I don't understand this world no more.

Trust me ... I don't either ... This all happened 2 years ago and Im sure things would be different now ... But it wasn't easy to break up either. Of course, I don't know if this was the same with you and that boy !!!

I bet not even he knows that...

when r u women going to realise that you are the problem and not us?