Are you a perv?

How could I know what he is doing when he isn't with me? And, btw, noone has got infection deseast because he/she has watched films.

Nat

So do I, actually.....it captures what you can't see...the thoughts..the psychological aspects.

Videos are too focused on filming sexual positions that may look good, but really aren't that much fun when you do it yourself. I also got tired of wading through loads (no pun intended..not really anyway) of pure crap to get to any good vids.

Personally, I wouldn't care if a boyfriend watched adult vids, because..if he did it before we met, who am I to change his lifestyle? As long as its not overdone, then its fine. And, I agree with spunky, as long as it doesn't turn into a pornstar vs me, it's all good.

I have a quite liberal opinion regarding porno. That could have something to do with my nationality. But anyway, people are free to do what ever they like. In the right amount, I guess porno can be good or something...

Good thinking. Anyone who comes into a relationship demanding that their significant other throw out their vids or whatever needs to be the one thrown out. It just doesn't work that way.

I think watching and doing together will be much much more But again playing with words can be really erotic....

That's sort of my problem. Don't get me wrong - I'm not a pig. I would never, EVER cheat on my wife, as I love her more than anything. However, what can I say? I was living alone for 5 years, so sure - I had a few (maybe more) films. At first, she wanted me to throw them out. I told her I'd try and sell them. I haven't sold all of them.

Spunky was right on, though my wife would NEVER watch them. She finds them incredibly offensive and doesn't see why I would still need to watch them.

Maybe she's right. I'm not too sure. Guess that's why I asked.

OH shit.....

Your wife should be thankful you haven't gone and cheated on her. It's hardwired into the male brain to seek out different mates, whether you like it or not/admit it or not. It doesn't mean you have to act on it, but having an outlet...Porn in particular..can definately help. It in turn helps keep the marriage thriving.

Otherwise, she can try to rule you....you'll go out an have an affair by the time you are 50 after all those years of repression boil over. That's how it happens and thats how it works.

She needs to mature and get some counseling for her insecurity.

And you need to stand your ground and be yourself. She married you..she doesn't get to mold you.

hell yeah. Dan keep the porn mate just put it in the loft or something. if she is offended by it. she wont be offended if she doesnt watch it.
i know some people find porn offensive but i really have no idea why ? not a clue. ???

People find it offensive because its a definate objectification of women (usually). I have friends who have banned their partners from anything of the sort for that very reason - it comes down to basically how feminist you are as to how offensive you find it, imo. Still, like I said, it doesn't really matter until that sort of attitude crosses over into reality.