Why do guys always assume that it's other guys who watch "adult" films and that women want to stop them somehow? This topic was discussed here quite a long time ago but I can tell you for a fact that it's not only men that enjoy "adult" entertainment. It should be (in my opinion) something that can be enjoyed together.
I tend to prefer the written word - so I have a large bookshelf of "adult" titles to choose from. My husband tends to prefer visuals LOL so he has those. We both can mix and match quite nicely

Katheen