are you allowed to look or not?

k im havign a little census here.

was in the pub there other nite with so0me mates and a nice lookign girl walked by. all of us except my bro had a look and commented on what a fine specimen she was.

anyways i could just about make out my brother from way up on his moral high horse saying "ah but i've got a girlfriend i'm not allowed to look"

now i've been going out with ashlea for alot lot longer than he has with his girl and even i think he's a totally pussywhipped tosser.

yay or nay. lookign but not touchign when ur attached is allowed?

lol i actually voted no by accident. i should go to bed.

I say yes. As long as it's not done in a rude or annoying way towards the girl/guy being looked at and it doesn't sound like your belittling your gf/bf I say it's all good.

There's nothing wrong with it so Yes... It's not like we are having sex with them.

Ryan

now that is one reply i'm surprised to hear

This is where the look but don't touch thing comer to mind, one can admire beauty and one can get hungry outside, just eat at home

HELL YES! I'm in a committed relationship, I'm not blind! I don't see any problem with it at all. Mike can look as much as he wants. I know he's coming home to me. And I'll look all I want too. There is nothing wrong with looking, it's the touching that causes the problems.

good to hear this from the gals too

so, it's 4-0 for the moment, considering that Jim hit the wrong button

Of course you can look! As I've always said, I'm married - not dead.
Bruce said it best "you can look but you better not touch"

Kathleen

YAY!
Lookie all you want, but dont you dare tochie. Moosie and I had lots of this going on all night with two men. So, she knows. And he was looking at me, by the way. :P