Maybe it is somehow selfish. But isn't it better to don't get kids when you don't want any? You for sure don't do the kids a favor when you as a mother or father are unsatisfied and unhappy.

I only hear sometimes very rarely comments from my parents who would love to become grand parents and both my sister and I don't have kids. But that's it.

I absolutely can't imagine myself as a mother. I never wanted kids and nothing has changed and will change.

Don't give too much about what others say. It's your life and you have to decide how you want to live it.