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Originally Posted by Supersonic
Aloha !
1.You're not opinionated. You just post the opinion of which you think people will agree with the most so that people will agree with you and you have the feeling that people like you. And it works over here with most people. However, some already notice what I just said and don't take you serious.
Sebastiaan
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how do you know that ? do we know each other ?
I am really opinionated or not this is certainly not you who can judge this my dear Sebastiaan . I am just asking a question to the ppl posting here ...I didn't ask them do you think I am opinionated ? don't do the shrink with me this is not the purpose. I am not posting about me but asking a question .... period ....
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And no, it's not a handicap. How could it be a handicap? Having an opinion is better than the ones who talk with the masses but inside strongly disagree with something and tell different stories to other persons.
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To be opinionated can be a handicap in some society , when I lived in Japan I experienced it ... there is NO ROOM for being vocal on anything .... ppl are never saying anything about what they think (there is no importance in the person and the individual doesn't count) unless they will get very tough feedback ..if you say something that sounds personal ppl think you are putting yourself on a pedestral (you can check that with the contents of the music magazine for example they don't say it's good or bad don't judge just write technical facts about guitar or piano not what they think about them) and they also ask musicians to talk themselves about their music , even the music journalists don't post their opinions ...in the newspaper you find informations but very few opinions ) so I think being opinionated can be a handicap depends of your sensibility and your background ... theorically everyone would think that it can't be a handicap but in real it can be .... I think ...
thanks for your opinion about the fact you think it can't be a handicap though ....