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Old 03-23-2013, 06:56 PM
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After 2 years of bliss or so I thought, my girlfriend has dumped me.

A 40 year old bloke is devastated, never been hurt so bad in my entire life.

Down to my shifts apparently . Had some great times together, jovi shows, trekked across the Sahara desert amongst other things. I love her to bits I really do, but don't know if I can fight anymore, its been under strain since xmas and all I have done is fight, im all out of fight .Sympathy would be welcome

Think I will get blind drunk

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Old 03-23-2013, 07:23 PM
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Ohhh no!! Sorry to read this, man. Break-ups can be a f*ckin' bitch! Broke up with my last girlfriend a year ago tomorrow…and damn, I still miss her. But live goes on and ever since my last 2 big ones, I have 2 new passions. Red wine and Scotch hahaha.

Anyway - Life goes on. An to be honest, relationships are really what you project them in your head to be. In reality, they're not all that good as you thought they were.

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Old 03-23-2013, 07:29 PM
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Maybe take some time to recover and if you love her and she loves you too try to build something new together?
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Sorry to hear that! Hope you're feeling better soon.
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Not being taken for a CUNT anymore ? **** you Bitch ?
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Old 06-06-2013, 07:28 AM
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Sorry to hear that man, give it some time and alcohol you'll start getting used to it in a bit. Being dumped is hard no matter any way you look at it, my last girlfriend dumped me. We were close to a year, definetly not as long a history as you but it still hurt, and she jumped right back to her ex. This song mixed in with a bit of whiskey and a couple of flings got me through that, but I still miss her...
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Maybe I'm the young naive one here, but isn't alcohol probably the worst thing you could do? I know what I was like, as with others and getting drunk.. is well.. a depressant. Does it actually make you feel better or does it make it worse?
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Maybe I'm the young naive one here, but isn't alcohol probably the worst thing you could do? I know what I was like, as with others and getting drunk.. is well.. a depressant. Does it actually make you feel better or does it make it worse?
ssshhh No one wants to hear you make sense here!!!
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Maybe I'm the young naive one here, but isn't alcohol probably the worst thing you could do? I know what I was like, as with others and getting drunk.. is well.. a depressant. Does it actually make you feel better or does it make it worse?
Well, alcohol with a good pick of friends can turn a shitty day into a hell of a night.
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I agree with faith. If both of you were/are in it for love, give it time and see how you both feel. Talk it out. Communicate!
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