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Old 11-15-2005, 11:40 PM
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I can get tongue-tied, but I can usually express myself quite well. People who know me can usually tell by my eyes what I am feeling.

I can be a bit blunt though.. something I need to work on!
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it depends i mean in many ways i'm incredibly open and in many i'm not.

i'm not too bothered about what other people think and that's not always a good thing but i think i've got alot more tactful in the past year or two 9though it could probably use a bit of work still)

i felt kinda embarassed today because i was ranting on the phone on the bus to my mate because i was pissed off with him. i mean fair enough let him know what i think but i coulda picked a sauver and more private way about doing it.
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Old 11-16-2005, 01:26 AM
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By "don't control your feelings" I didn't mean "pour your feelings on everyone". I meant "don't drive them back in a corner of your mind", don't be afraid to feel angry, happy, sad, whatever... Just let them go through yourself. That way you'll have no extra amount of the x or y feeling that could make you over-react when you'll feel like expressing your feelings, and you'll be less afraid to come across as a nutcase.

Controling your emotions and controling your communication are two different things.


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I know what I'm feeling most of the time. Sometimes it confuses me, but not often. I do not let my feelings show hardly ever. To the point where people have told me I have no emotion, or, in the case of one of my coworkers, that she thinks I hate her because I rarely "react" to her. That's a rather harsh way of putting it, less than a week later she asked if I was raised by my grandmother because I was so polite.

I try keep as much control, and let as little show as possible.

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Old 11-16-2005, 06:34 PM
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So u usual happy the way u express urself to others?.
not always. i really think it depends on the person you wanna express your feelings (whether they make you feel comfortable or not).
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I try not to think so much about my own feelings it only makes me confused. And they few times I've tried to explain something for another person it's gone down quite badly.

But I guess it's a good thing to express your feelings, but I'm not "man" enough to do it.
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Old 11-16-2005, 09:23 PM
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but I'm not "man" enough to do it.
so, only 'men' should express their feelings?

whew - I always thought real men didn't cry..........
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Old 11-16-2005, 09:26 PM
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so, only 'men' should express their feelings?

whew - I always thought real men didn't cry..........
No that's not what I meant.
I do believe that if you are mature you should be able to express your feelings, and I can't so.. I'm boy.. (Stupid Panama!)

Boys don't cry Maria, men do.. (but not infront of others!)
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Old 11-17-2005, 04:45 PM
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Boys don't cry Maria, men do.. (but not infront of others!)
Yes my friend thats true
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