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Originally Posted by ponrauil
I let my feelings show easily, sometimes despite trying not to, but I'm not good at putting words on them.
And I'm not trying to either, at least not in the instant, I think "wording" a feeling kills it. I'm willing and able to talk about it a few hours/days later though.
Trying to control your feelings generates frustration and isn't good on the long run. Just let them run through you, live them, that's the best way to both have the right feeling at the right time and avoid frustration. If you suck them in they will eventually come out stronger and disproportionate.
Ponrauil
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Thats really cool thing u got it there.... No its not easy to express urself the way u want it for many and i'm one of them... may be i do express myself much better on internet then in real life.... where i mostly keep everything inside.... coz i'm not good at arguing..... and when i do i get angry and say something which i not really meant, i even hate myself when i get angry coz of that..... so i try to keep quite or say it just in one line as much as possible.... which is better for me i think.... I never get the words i want to say while expressing or arguing myself.... Anyway communication was never been my thing....
