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Old 11-11-2003, 12:51 AM
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Since I read Joviscout's post I thought this might be an interesting discussion topic... Wondering what you think about having children? Should it be something that you ONLY do as a married couple, do you HAVE to have a stable home/job etc. What about alternatives if it turns out that you can't have children: should you look into other avenues?
I can't imagine my life without having children. 3 would be the minimum.
I don't see mariage in any other way than just a symbol so it's not a necessary thing for me to have kids.
Stability is essential for children, where ever it comes from doesn't count as long as it's there.
If It turned out i couldn't have any, I'd probably turn towards adoption. Actually I might adopt a child even if I can have some naturally. I think it's one of the most generous thing people can do.

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I can't wait to have kids...its the job I want, to be a mom. I would prefer my kids to have a Dad and a proper family but if it happened that I was s ingle mom then I would cope, it wouldnt matter to me.

There is a chance that I might not be able to have kids, I find out at the end of the month. To be honest I'm sure how I would deal with that if it was I couldnt have kids. But I would like to think I would try to adopt or foster kids if I couldn't have any of my own.

Or even if I could have kids of my own I might try foster/adopt.
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Stability is essential for children, where ever it comes from doesn't count as long as it's there.
If It turned out i couldn't have any, I'd probably turn towards adoption. Actually I might adopt a child even if I can have some naturally. I think it's one of the most generous thing people can do.

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Very much agree and find the thought of adopting a child, even though you can have your own, very admirable. Particularly for a man. Not to be sexist, but generally men are more macho in that area - where they want their "own" child. (maybe just the men I know )
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Taking care of children is big thing and also one of wonderfuly thing also. Seeing them grow is such a wonerful thing , the best example is my sister 6 month baby. When u playing with her everything else will just slip out of ur mind and u also feel like just another baby. And time wil fly like plane.
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I have a daughter but I haven't a stable home or stable relationship. However I hope I'm a good parent.

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I think the main thing is if your going to have childern with someone just make sure they are the right one, make sure their not parnioid or anything because once you have childern they are your life and its very hard to give them up so you could get stuck in hell
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I dont want them til im at least 25/26 though, i wanna enjoy young life as much as possible.....carli, i will phone you in 5 years
I gotta wait 5 years??!!! Hmmmmmmmmm il be 28 then, I always said if I were having kids id be in my late 20's.
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I dont want them til im at least 25/26 though, i wanna enjoy young life as much as possible.....carli, i will phone you in 5 years
I gotta wait 5 years??!!! Hmmmmmmmmm il be 28 then, I always said if I were having kids id be in my late 20's.
lol, kool.....but we can start practicing now right?
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I dont want them til im at least 25/26 though, i wanna enjoy young life as much as possible.....carli, i will phone you in 5 years
I gotta wait 5 years??!!! Hmmmmmmmmm il be 28 then, I always said if I were having kids id be in my late 20's.
lol, kool.....but we can start practicing now right?
I see subtlety is not your speciality, huh? :P
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I dont want them til im at least 25/26 though, i wanna enjoy young life as much as possible.....carli, i will phone you in 5 years
I gotta wait 5 years??!!! Hmmmmmmmmm il be 28 then, I always said if I were having kids id be in my late 20's.
lol, kool.....but we can start practicing now right?
I see subtlety is not your speciality, huh? :P
lol, not at all, not at all....im only being open and honest though!
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