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Originally Posted by MrIks from Finland
But is hard 'cause when you are as young as me, you have a little crush on every girl you are with... It is enough that she is a good looking but that is not a good ground enough to build a real relationship. I have a few friends who have got engaged but have divorced before even getting married... So I'm little terrified...?
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Exactly.
Enjoy your youth.
I don't understand why someone would want to get married at your age - most people haven't figured out who they are at that age, let alone be able to figure out someone else and build a relationship.
I am not advocating taking friendships/relationships lightly and jump from person to person cause that is certainly NOT how you grow.
Be with who you want to ... don't slut around, but enjoy being single and when someone comes along you might want to hang around for a bit longer and the other person feels the same way, then do it.
Imo, one cannot learn to be in a relationship without ever being in one. At the same time, some people will commit too early and later regret not having been ''out'' a bit more.
One thing I do want to say about the slutting around
meaning never having a meaningful relationship, but having a new girl/boy every month .... there are people like that my age that have never been in a long lasting relationship and I steer WAY clear of those guys. Not being able to sustain any relationship is much more a sign of trouble than previously failed relationships. IMO.
Anyway, not sure what you are worried about though....
As far as what age is right ---- well, that depends on when the right person comes along?!? I started my first long term relationship when I was 15 (lasted almost 3 years which is forever at that age) and then had no really long term relationship until I was 22 or so.... It's when you are ready and when that person comes along. Anytime could be the right time.