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Old 11-06-2006, 03:18 PM
Jim Bon Jovi Jim Bon Jovi is offline
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my 2 cents.

enjoy not being tied down while you have the opportunity.

i almost proposed when i was your age because i was so certain this girl was the one. we went out for nearly 3 years but now i barely speak to her and im lucky if i bump into her a few times a year.

although i did kind of the opposite of you and had along term relationship at that age, i have had a few years since to slut around and both have their merits and negative aspects.

for what it's worth. when you intentionally look for someone it usually is detrimental in my opinion.

pour example'

if you go out clubbign determined to pull and you don't. you'll think man i didnt pull and i really wanted to. whereas if you#re not too bothered you wont feel bummed if you dont and if you do pull it'll be a nmice little bonus.

same with looking for a girlfriend, if you're really desperate to find someone, you might "fall" for anyone.

i'd just chill and let things take their course until you find someone you like and can see something developing with. i broke up with a girl i'd been seeing just before i went busking in europe and when i was away i had so much fun i decided i was becoming a nihilist and didn't want a girlfriend for a long time but as fate woul dhave it, less than a month later i met a girl in a club and we've totally hit it off so you never really know.

i think the pertaining fact is that you can never tell whats going to happen or who you're going to meet so you might as well let things take their course.

you're still young. there's no need to rush into anything.
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