Originally Posted by Jim Bon Jovi

k so on tuesday night i was thinking about getting engaged to my girlfriend.

then i sobered up and realised the stupidity of the idea.

but now i'm back i don;t think it's that bad an idea.

short story: we've been buds for like 5 years and were best fr9ends before we started going out. been going out for 20 months. never argue or fight and we can live together alone cos we've done it before for a few weeks.

i know that i'm going to marry her one day so y not get engaged now?

i even know where i'm going to do it. theres this little beach place down the west coast called Maidens and it has a cliff edge bit that is one of the most beautiful places u'll ever see in your life and my girlfriend loves it there.


now i'm pretty much an old fashioned guy n i think the only person who should know i;'m going to propose to her that knows us should be her dad when i ask for her hand. i know it's old and cliched but i think it shows some respect to the family y'know.

anyways theres alot of diversity in here form people who r married, engaged and have been married so i want to know all ur opinions.