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Old 05-19-2005, 11:55 AM
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I agree with Ice. And I don't buy the emotional theory. All women I know, don't need love or emotions in order to have sex. I do think there are people who need that, but that doesn't apply solely on women. Like Keeper said; it's more of a personality thing instead of a sex thing.
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Spunky, is that waht you truly believe or what you WANT to believe?
That's what I didn't even dared to ask because I just couldn't believe what she wrote, what a sad perception of the opposite sex.
I really do believe it and yes it is true that I don't seem to think particularly favorable of the male gender. I also KNOW that there are men that aren't cheating, but I also think that they are very few and far in between.

The statistics you posted, Ice, may very well be true, it just isn't what I see. I just don't know any women that cheat, but I know loads of men who do it over and over and over again. Among the ones that don't cheat, I also think that a good number just never got into a situation where they could have cheated and the likelyhood of the spouse finding out would have been very small.

My latest examples: My friends ex-boyfriend told her point blank that he would cheat if he was fairly certain that she'd never find out (he says it's normal and he also thinks women cheat just as much). My ex always told me that men do not need a reason to cheat, if a women is available and the chances of nobody finding out, they WILL cheat.

A couple of weeks ago, my friend and I were sitting in a bar and a guy comes on to my friend, it is quite clear what he wants and he asks her over and over again. He wears a wedding band and has a 2 year old son at home. Absolutely ****ing disgusting!

And, no, I don't think all women need an emotional bond to have sex, that is not at all what I am saying. What I do think is that women, being more emotional, have an easier time to keep their pants zipped than men who never seem to get emotionally involved (unless they turn psycho).
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Old 05-19-2005, 04:53 PM
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It all depends on your own experiences though.

I have one mate I know for a fact who cheats constantly no matter who he's going out with and one who claims he does and I'm inclined to believe him.

then again, they've both been cheated on several times.

I've been cheated on a coupla times by girls, I've never cheated,

same applies to my brother cept he's cheated once.

my best mate has a girl who's told him next time she sees him they;'re getting it together despite having a 2 year relationship

and all of us at one point or other have got it on with girls with boyfriends wether we knew it or not so from my experience women are more likely to do it and I only know one guy who will do it time and time again.
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Spunky, is that waht you truly believe or what you WANT to believe?
That's what I didn't even dared to ask because I just couldn't believe what she wrote, what a sad perception of the opposite sex.
I really do believe it and yes it is true that I don't seem to think particularly favorable of the male gender. I also KNOW that there are men that aren't cheating, but I also think that they are very few and far in between.

The statistics you posted, Ice, may very well be true, it just isn't what I see. I just don't know any women that cheat, but I know loads of men who do it over and over and over again. Among the ones that don't cheat, I also think that a good number just never got into a situation where they could have cheated and the likelyhood of the spouse finding out would have been very small.

My latest examples: My friends ex-boyfriend told her point blank that he would cheat if he was fairly certain that she'd never find out (he says it's normal and he also thinks women cheat just as much). My ex always told me that men do not need a reason to cheat, if a women is available and the chances of nobody finding out, they WILL cheat.

A couple of weeks ago, my friend and I were sitting in a bar and a guy comes on to my friend, it is quite clear what he wants and he asks her over and over again. He wears a wedding band and has a 2 year old son at home. Absolutely **** disgusting!

And, no, I don't think all women need an emotional bond to have sex, that is not at all what I am saying. What I do think is that women, being more emotional, have an easier time to keep their pants zipped than men who never seem to get emotionally involved (unless they turn psycho).
Seems like you've got the wrong friends then.
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Yes its all depdend on personal expernce .... but again i also talking about men who are not in relationship... IMO most men take chance which thrown in their way of have casual sex then girls whether its in a relationship or not.... And thats why we have so many prositution center everywhere and every place in the world for men and hardly anything for women....
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I just don't know any women that cheat, but I know loads of men who do it over and over and over again.
And the women they do it with are all single, of course.

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My ex always told me that men do not need a reason to cheat, if a women is available and the chances of nobody finding out, they WILL cheat.
Well, your ex is wrong.

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My ex always told me that men do not need a reason to cheat, if a women is available and the chances of nobody finding out, they WILL cheat.
Well, your ex is wrong.

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very wrong . i havent cheated in the last 11 years .however when i was a teenager it was different i had three at once sometimes but it wasnt serious so it didnt matter
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My ex always told me that men do not need a reason to cheat, if a women is available and the chances of nobody finding out, they WILL cheat.
Well, your ex is wrong.

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very wrong . i havent cheated in the last 11 years .however when i was a teenager it was different i had three at once sometimes but it wasnt serious so it didnt matter
i also think that younger ppl (let's say students ) cheat more than adults cause here when you go out you don't even need to specially look for someone who's willing to "take care of you for the night" life's like a joyride at campus... when you're older (meaning when you've got a job, a wife and kids) you're confronted with a lot more responsibility and i think that this also shows at cheating...

p.s.: i don't cheat on my gf- though i'm a student
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And thats why we have so many prositution center everywhere and every place in the world for men and hardly anything for women....
I don't have a problem with prostitution whatsoever and I think the reason why there aren't brothels for women is because women can get it anytime without paying (though there are escort services for women with standards too).



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My ex always told me that men do not need a reason to cheat, if a women is available and the chances of nobody finding out, they WILL cheat.
Well, your ex is wrong.

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