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Old 11-10-2003, 08:05 PM
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Do you give the benifit of the dought of someone or do you go straight in and accuss them of something, just want to know i always give the benifit . like to think that most people are good
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Old 11-10-2003, 08:06 PM
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i usually accuse them in my own mind without saying anything. i have quite a quick mind and one which is good at deducing certain things, but sometimes i **** up and get it completely wrong.
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Old 11-10-2003, 08:13 PM
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Me too, i always think that people are good ( maybe a little naive sometimes ) and that have made me be very disappointed with some people lattely
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i usually accuse them in my own mind without saying anything. i have quite a quick mind and one which is good at deducing certain things, but sometimes i **** up and get it completely wrong.
I'm guilty of doing that too

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I give the benefit of the doubt too much. I need to be more suspicious, I think. I tend to believe in the good in people and look for reasons rather than just jumping to conclusions or accusations. Hence, I often get burned.

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I give the benefit of the doubt too much. I need to be more suspicious, I think. I tend to believe in the good in people and look for reasons rather than just jumping to conclusions or accusations. Hence, I often get burned.

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Old 11-10-2003, 10:28 PM
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I give people the benefit of the doubt cos im nice like that
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Old 11-10-2003, 10:35 PM
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No, I don't trust anyone I know it's bad, but i can be objective sometimes.
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I go very strong on my first instincts, good or bad. Then it is up to the person to prove me wrong. So I do give people the benefit of the doubt. I also believe that everyone is allowed to make a mistake, but just the one, if you repeat that mistake with me, you're history!

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No, I don't trust anyone I know it's bad, but i can be objective sometimes.
i'm the same. I try my best to trust people - I just believe that there are a lot of lieing people in the world, and i always suspect all of them live in interaction with me - and once they do one little bad thing i have the worse time forgiving them...to the point of tough grudge holding
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