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Old 08-29-2003, 07:38 PM
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Partly yes, partly no.

Yes because when you talk to someone about more then 2 hours a day on MSN, and that goes on for weeks, and you never have a silent or dull moment, you know both of you share the same interests. You've got two options, become very good friends, like what happened between me and Thierry (no we're not in love. ) Or you can fall in love. Bút, it needs to be confirmed, so after you've met that particular person in real life and you know your "digital" feelings are right you fell in love with someone on the internet. That has happened to me twice. The first time didn't end so lucky, the second time didn't end at all.

No, because like Richie says, you need interaction, and when you say I love you to someone you've never met that goes a bit far. Though I know someone who could possibly say that about his girl he met thru the internet too. Oh and no not me.

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And by the way, I'm not someone who's visiting and browsing dating sites and so on, desperately trying to get a girfriend. Yes, I've had girlfriends that didn't came of the internet.

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you say you had girlfriendS that didn't came of the internet; that also says that you had girlfriendS from the internet- hey dude- you're 19- how long do your relation ships last or when did you start with them???
That I had girlfriendS that didn't came of the internet doesn't mean I have girfriendS from the internet.

And that wasn't my point I was trying to tell, my point was that it is possible.

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i know someone who has fallen in love over the internet TWICE!!!! but honestly- i don't think it's really possible- it might be a beginning but still you have to see and that person and go out and do sth... only chatting and writing mail is by far not enough i think
i met my wife from the internet.
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Yes, I think so, but you won't know for sure until you meet. You also need physical attraction too and you can't get that from the internet. However, I think because you talk more over the internet you kind of bypass all the difficult stages that you can have in new relationship.

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My ex-friend lost EVERYTHING she had for an internet relationship. She threw away all her friends, upset her family and quit her job to go over to the US to meet a guy she had been talking online to. They were engaged 3 days after they met, then married 3 weeks later, then divorced 3 weeks after that.
So after that (Watching my friend loose her sanity over what she thought was love) i'm highly critical over internet relationships.
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My ex-friend lost EVERYTHING she had for an internet relationship. She threw away all her friends, upset her family and quit her job to go over to the US to meet a guy she had been talking online to. They were engaged 3 days after they met, then married 3 weeks later, then divorced 3 weeks after that.
So after that (Watching my friend loose her sanity over what she thought was love) i'm highly critical over internet relationships.
Wow.. that all seems a bit fast...

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My ex-friend lost EVERYTHING she had for an internet relationship. She threw away all her friends, upset her family and quit her job to go over to the US to meet a guy she had been talking online to. They were engaged 3 days after they met, then married 3 weeks later, then divorced 3 weeks after that.
So after that (Watching my friend loose her sanity over what she thought was love) i'm highly critical over internet relationships.
Erk! What was your friend thinking??? Three Days!! That is crazy.
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Erk! What was your friend thinking??? Three Days!! That is crazy.
A long time ago I knew someone who married a guy after knowing him one (yes 1) day. It ended badly - seems he already had a wife. I think a bit more time getting to know each other is wise.

And yes - I think an internet relationship can be a real relationship but it is still no substitute for getting to know someone face to face (so to speak)

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Well....I've got a friend who met someone and has fallen in love online. He met her while playing Everquest (stupid online role playing game) and they started calling each other and talking all the time. She came here to meet him and they really hit it off well. They've traveled back and forth from Florida to Tennessee to spend time together over the last year or so. Now, he's talking about moving to Tennessee to be with her. So far, so good....but we'll see how it ends up in the long run.
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My ex-friend lost EVERYTHING she had for an internet relationship. She threw away all her friends, upset her family and quit her job to go over to the US to meet a guy she had been talking online to. They were engaged 3 days after they met, then married 3 weeks later, then divorced 3 weeks after that.
So after that (Watching my friend loose her sanity over what she thought was love) i'm highly critical over internet relationships.
Erk! What was your friend thinking??? Three Days!! That is crazy.
I don't think she was thinking!! That's not even the whole story, another bit of the story is because we couldn't stop her from going over there to meet him, my friends and i wanted to go over there to make sure she was safe and happy, so we decided that i'd fly over to America to see her and make sure she was doing OK. Long story short, I payed for her ticket to LA from Oregon and we stayed in LA for about a week, we had a fight and she flew back to Oregon (With the ticket i payed for) and left me in LA all by myself Needless to say that's ONE of the reasons she lost all her friends. She's a wack job!
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