that really upsets me cos i so try to be...i seem to be easily able to help ppl whom im not so great freinds with....but when it comes down to ppl i love i just cant get that bend...wots hurts more is that he is so positve and happy....and to see him in such a state is...nothing short of shocking...his fmaily sent him off to cyprus for about a week to stay with his aunt and 'get away'....sigh....but wot hurts most if how ppl around me seem to be dieng on me.