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Old 02-25-2004, 01:13 AM
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Some do some dont. i realise some teachers ae cool. We have afew great teachers in my school and my form tutor did help my half bro overcome his drug problem. But these tests are just lame.Loads of people must be taking drugs in my school. Its wot people my age do sadly.. and wot they gonna do?? Chuck all those people out of the school? They dont have the money. Help them? They dont have the time. Its a controll thing.
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quote]Jade it is great that your mom "knows" what she is doing, but what about the other mom's who don't have a clue? If parents don't do their job right, who should step in? Should teachers just stand back and watch their kids flush their lives down the toilet due to bad parenting. Or should we try to help them succeed in any way we can and give them the support they are lacking? I am curious Jade, who do you think will help these kids, and don't they deserve a chance too??
What about the other moms that don't have a clue? That's between the kid and the parent, not the kid and the state. If you, as an individual person want to give whatever support you can, great. Do not do it on school time, with school funds, or in any way involve the school system, as that's federal time, federal money, and is totally unsanctioned by the overriding (er...it should be overriding) rule of law in the land.

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I understand what you are saying about the gov.'t stepping in, but can you offer any alternatives? As far as who is to determine "bad parenting," when it gets to the point where students can't function anymore in school due to their homelife, I would say that is bad parenting. It is sad, but I see it more and more these days.
My alternatives are A. Leave the feds out of it entirely, and B. See A. Why does the federal government need to get involved at all? If the country was run in any semblence of its original framework, the local level would be very involved. Not the "it takes a village to raise a child" crap, but people (parents and kids) would have a place to turn (charities, churches, etc) and the feds will just butt out all together.

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I am on the fence about that comment. In one way, it is a violation of rights but in another, maybe it is about time parents are held accountable for their children's actions. Like I said, the situation is only getting worse and something needs to be done. Again, what would you offer as alternatives?
That parents being held accountable for their children's actions quote is downright scary. Given the self-evident fact that government powers expand, what is considered perfectly reasonable today, will at some point be expanded to include something that's not reasonable.

You're right the situation is getting worse, and I've got several theories on how to fix it. The most moderate of my theories would be to let the private sector handle it. Let the parents and kids vote on whether or not they want drug testing (and let both sides present their facts, no suppression of information). And let them vote on how best to procede? Do they want to hire a group to do drug testing? Which group? How much do they want to pay? Do they want drug testing at all? What policies should they set for violators? That's a starting point. That's real freedom.

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hmm... this would be contrary to what the articles, the ones about privacy and education, of the human rights declare. i think it's the 26th article that decribes the main purpose of the educational process.
morever that would cause further discrimination problems among the students and it would only prevent kids from taking drugs during the school period (well kind of). i think they should find other ways of controlling drugs in schools.
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That's between the kid and the parent, not the kid and the state. If you, as an individual person want to give whatever support you can, great. Do not do it on school time, with school funds, or in any way involve the school system, as that's federal time, federal money, and is totally unsanctioned by the overriding (er...it should be overriding) rule of law in the land.
My question remains the same. If we don't help these kids, who will?? If the parent isn't willing, the kid should just suffer and schools should turn a blind eye to it?

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but people (parents and kids) would have a place to turn (charities, churches, etc) and the feds will just butt out all together.
Again this sounds good, but do people really do this in "real life." Not many do, obviously.

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That parents being held accountable for their children's actions quote is downright scary.
Scary, yes. But why should parents get away with bringing a life into the world and not take any responsibility in raising this life? Why is it so easy for a "parent" to walk away and leave a kid to fend for themselves??
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Yipee, useless drug tests... That's always fun. And i'm still in school, too. No one ever listens to them anyway.
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That parents being held accountable for their children's actions quote is downright scary.
Adrian, I never said in what way they should be held accountable, so you shouldn't be scared.
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Teachers are 'acting parents' when kids are at school! They are the authoritarian figures, they are the punishment distributors and they ar the ones held responsible for the kids when they are on school property. They play as important a role in child-development as parents so why shouldn't they intervene when things go astray. In many cases, drugged up students is a direct consequence of disruptive homes or even drug-addict parents as well. If their 'real' parents can't help them, what chance do they have if teachers can't provide some form of parenting in their place.

Bad parenting is the reason the world is getting more and more f**ked up by the day! Something needs to be done soon and in my opinion this is the first step. It may not be the best step (whose to judge what is?) but it's better than just sitting on your arses and just bitching about the problem without any hope of progress being made!
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what next, they'll stop searching kids in america for guns cos it's a violation?

If you're in school, you folow their rules and if you're takign drugs or are under the influence of them during school then they can handle you as appropriate.

Did i do drugs when i was in school? no so if i get asked to take a test do i have anythign to worry about? nope, now if i thought about doing drugs, I would have somethign to worry about and it might just might deter me from doing it.


I kinda get the impression that the people here saying it shouldn't happen haven't grew up or been exposed to alot of drug use and it's effects.
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My question remains the same. If we don't help these kids, who will?? If the parent isn't willing, the kid should just suffer and schools should turn a blind eye to it?
Harsh as it sounds, yes. The school is there to educate, not play parent to every child that walks in the doors. If you want to help them as a person, not a teacher, more power to you. Work with charities, do the Boys And Girls club thing, whatever you want. But to turn the public schools into surragate (misspelled?) parents for every one of its patrons is just begging for abuse. Private action is ALWAYS the way to go.

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Again this sounds good, but do people really do this in "real life." Not many do, obviously.
Not many do, but if the feds got out of the job of playing nursemaid to the population of the United States, more people would. With 40-60% of their incomes back, who wouldn't give more to charity?

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Scary, yes. But why should parents get away with bringing a life into the world and not take any responsibility in raising this life? Why is it so easy for a "parent" to walk away and leave a kid to fend for themselves??
The alternative is far worse. I can think of few worse tyrannies than the feds forcing parents to "parent" at gunpoint (police action, excuse me). I would rather give people the freedom to make the wrong choice than take all freedom away in an attempt to force people to make the right choice.

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